Recently, I had the privilege of serving as a panelist on a program titled The Art of the Exit: Smart Strategies for Business Succession & Sale. The audience was engaged and the discussion robust, touching on the technical, financial, and emotional complexities of transitioning out of a business.
From my familiar perspective as an engineer turned lawyer it was easy to focus on – if not get caught up with – how to determine the sale price of a business and how the mechanics of the deal might unfold. From my additional perspective of more recently being seminary trained and ordained, I caught comments from other panelists as well as audience members that pointed to the human and emotional side of business succession planning and sale.
Indeed, one of the more compelling themes that emerged during the session and conversations afterward was the importance of business owners reflecting deeply on their values when considering succession or sale. I found myself recognizing, not surprising, that business owners frequently struggle with more than just the narrow question of sale price and papering the deal without acknowledging what’s really gnawing at them.
The Role of Values in Business Succession and Sale
The transition out of a business is more than a financial transaction—it is a profound personal milestone. Owners pour years, often decades, of energy, creativity, and commitment into their enterprises. When the time comes to step away, the question becomes not just how to exit, but why and on what terms. A successful transition is not just measured in dollars but in alignment with the owner’s deeply held values.
At a minimum, the business owner seriously approaching the business succession question should begin by reflecting on what truly matters to him or her in this transition. What legacy do they wish to leave? How do they define success beyond the balance sheet? These considerations provide the foundation for an emotionally – even spiritually – satisfying exit.
The Ethic of “Enough”
A key concept in values-based succession planning is understanding what is financially enough. Most of us business owners were trained and conditioned to think in terms of maximizing our financial return. A more meaningful question, however, is: What do I actually need to live a fulfilling life post-transition? Having an ethic of enough, and identifying what is enough—in terms of financial security, lifestyle, and personal fulfillment—allows the business owner to make thoughtful, stakeholder aware and purpose-driven decisions, rather than ones dictated solely by financial optimization.
As I said during the presentation. “Don’t think of ‘maximizing profit’ but think of ‘optimizing opportunity’ because ‘maximize’ teeters on one leg while ‘optimize’ stand firmly on many legs.”
By defining enough, business owners can empower themselves to shift from a negative mindset of fear to a positive mindset of gratitude. This opens the door to prioritizing non-financial considerations, such as the wellbeing of employees, the continuity of company culture, and the long-term health of the business.
Furthermore, the ethic of enough helps owners avoid the pitfalls of endless wealth accumulation, for the sake of accumulation, which frequently leads to unnecessary complexity, stress, and detachment from deeper life aspirations. Instead, knowing what is enough fosters clarity and confidence, enabling business owners to transition with peace of mind, knowing their financial future is secure and their legacy intact.
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The Ethic of “Mutuality”
Beyond financial sufficiency, a values-driven transition considers the interests of all stakeholders—employees, management teams, and even the broader community. This perspective, which demonstrates an ethic of mutuality, recognizes that a business is not just an asset to be liquidated but a living ecosystem of people and relationships.
An owner can intentionally structure a sale or succession to optimize opportunities for those who have contributed to the business’s success. This could take the form of an Employee Stock Ownership Plan (ESOP), a sale to a management team, or transitioning leadership to a family member prepared for the role. Rather than viewing the exit as a zero-sum game, this approach seeks to create shared success, ensuring the continued vitality of the business for those who remain.
Additionally, leading with an ethic of mutuality allows business owners to foster goodwill and trust within their organizations, maintaining strong relationships even after they have stepped away. When stakeholders feel valued and supported, they are more likely to uphold the business’s culture and mission, ensuring its longevity and stability. This approach also minimizes disruption, prevents morale declines, and sustains productivity through the transition.
Moreover, mutuality extends beyond the company itself. A responsible and ultimately more satisfying transition considers the broader impact on suppliers, customers, and the local economy. Business owners who practice mutuality recognize that their exit does not happen in isolation—it has ripple effects that can either strengthen or weaken the communities they have helped build.
Connecting “Enough” and “Mutuality” to a Better Capitalism
The ethics of enough and mutuality are not just individual values; they align with a broader movement toward a more ethical and sustainable capitalism that better serves people, rather than people being used to serve America’s current form of capitalism. Organizations like the Institute for Better Capitalism, Inc. (a 501c3 think tank) advocate for updates to American capitalism that prioritizes value creation, free markets guided by Adam Smith's invisible hand of mutuality, and the common good over short-term profit maximization.
By choosing enough, business owners resist the extractive pressures of America’s current form of Darwinian Capitalism that often encourage wealth accumulation without purpose. Instead, these business owners set a precedent that financial success is measured not just by personal gain, but by how well the business serves the owner’s family, employees, and broader stakeholders. This approach fosters a healthier economic ecosystem where businesses operate to flourish and profit, while helping others flourish and profit. Many people engaged in business have a dog-eat-dog mindset by choice, not because that’s the only option.
Likewise, practicing mutuality reinforces the idea that businesses flourish best when they invest in their people and communities. A transition structured around mutuality strengthens employee engagement, preserves business integrity, and supports local economies, contributing to a capitalism that values human dignity and shared prosperity.
By embracing these values, business owners not only achieve a more emotionally fulfilling exit but also contribute to the larger vision of capitalism as a force for good—one that balances profit with purpose and sustainability.
A Satisfying Transition: Integrating “Enough” and “Mutuality”
It was a knowledgeable panel and engaging presentation, so I was told afterward. After hearing some of the other panelists, I certainly left understanding that the most fulfilling business transitions are those that balance personal financial security with a broader sense of purpose and responsibility. By embracing the ethics of enough and mutuality, business owners are empowered to craft exits that not only meet their financial needs but also leave a lasting, positive impact on employees, management, and the community.
Ultimately, a well-planned transition is about more than just stepping away—it’s about stepping forward into a future that reflects the owner’s highest values. In doing so, they ensure that both they and their business continue to thrive, even in their absence.
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